A few days ago, this post reminded me of something that happened when my son was about 2½ years old or so.
We had been attending a picnic arranged by the hotel where I was working and were on our way home. This was in August and one of those almost unbearably hot prairie days – I’m sure the temperature inside the city bus was approaching +30 Celcius. I felt slightly nauseated from the three H’s – hamburgers, hot dogs and heat – but my son was in high spirits. He was sitting in my lap facing me and talking a blue streak about everything and anything.
Suddenly he stops in the middle of a sentence and looks at my chest.
“What you got there, Mommy?”
Whereupon he pulls up my t-shirt, sticks his head underneath it and giggles.
I yanked him away from there, pulled the chord to get off the bus at the next stop and walked I don’t know how many blocks to get home.
It took me some time to realise that my reaction was totally silly but born out of the rather prudish times. This was in 1980 and I had already been chastised for letting my son run around naked on the beach.
How about now? Is it still comme il faut to let a toddler go skinny dipping in Canada? How about breastfeeding in public places? Are you urged to go to the bathroom to feed your child as I was in Winnipeg back in the late 70’s?