My blogging friend kcinnova commented on my admission that I was skipping school the other day – or rather that I have been known to encourage students to do the same on occasion. From what I understand about the school system in most American states, this could be reason for dismissal (or at least a severe reprimand) – Canadian school boards would surely take a dim view of a teacher who undermined the authority of the system in such a manner!
At the beginning of my career I would have wholeheartedly agreed – of course students need to be in school every lesson, every day! Since then my views have become reality adjusted in more ways than one, but for now I’ll stay with the skipping classes part.
I would of course never encourage all of my students to take it upon themselves to decide what classes to attend. I will however tell some of my students to slow down, take a weekend off, allow themselves to be teenagers, chill, not chase after 100% on every single test - and skip an occasional English class, just because!
What type of student is it we’re talking about?
Highly ambitious, burdened with high expectations from home, active in sports and/or other organisations… and most often girls. They are often seen packing down their books on a Friday, “just in case” they will feel like revising something or other during the weekend. They crumble over a result less than 95% in Grade 7, they turn pale when their essay in Grade 8 doesn’t garner them accolades and by Grade 9 they’re all too often stressed out – if not stopped along the way. I often talk to these girls about the need to pace yourself, to not burn all of your reserves in grade school, but sometimes you need to be more drastic than that. I’m quite sure the students I’ve had over the years have benefitted from my unorthodox approach – even if they felt guilty as all get out when they snuck out the entrance as their classmates entered the classroom.For some it was enough just knowing they COULD skip a class – they never did – but they knew the possibility existed and that was enough for them to relax and thus improve their results.
So, what do you all say? Am I wrong, or is there some merit in what I do?